Think freely.
Smile often.
Tell those you love that you do.
Rediscover old friends.
Make new ones.
Hope.
Grow.
Reach out.
Pick some flowers.
Share them.
Keep a promise.
Laugh heartily.
Let someone in.
Hug a child.
Slow down.
See a sunrise.
Listen to rain.
Trust life.
Have faith.
Enjoy!
Make mistakes.
Learn from them.
Explore the unknown.
Celebrate life!
--wise author unknown
Enjoy this last day of March. We're heading to the Butterfly House in awhile to pretend it's spring for just a few moments. Maybe we'll stop for ice cream too, just for good measure.
Have a good day, my friends!!
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Ordinary Life
Today was a wonderfully ordinary day. The girls went with Grammy for an afternoon of shopping, lunch, and a movie. I was invited, but declined. As a girl, I had always wanted a special "just me and Grandma" relationship, but it didn't happen. So, I encourage my mom to take time to just hang out with the girls, without their mom hanging around, dominating the conversation! My mom was a working mom, so this stuff doesn't come easy for her. I'm glad she knows how important it is to be there for the girls in this way.
I spent a few hours with a dear friend today, having a coffee and a coke break. Maybe I should just call it a caffeinated visit! We've wanted to get together for a long time. I'm so glad that we finally did. We always have a lot to talk about, and today was no exception. Thanks, buddy, for a nice talk!
I enjoyed the drive, turning up the music nice and loud, and passing all the slow cars. See, I had the "coolmobile" today, NOT the mom-van! I was rockin' the dad car. I was cool! Maybe it was the fact that the heat in the dad car doesn't work! Either way....
I didn't get much done today, as I came home to a demanding doggie, who doesn't like to be left alone for very long. I spent the rest of the afternoon keeping her happy, and watching a little TV. Steve brought a pizza home for us, and we hung out, munching pizza, talking about our crazy pooch.
The girls got home a little early, and excitedly showed us their fabulous purchases, and bubbled about their trip with Grammy.
What magic there is in an ordinary day! It may be a humdrum life to someone else, but to me, this is magic. It's being able to relax, be in the moment, appreciate little joys, and not expect too much.
It is receiving texts from my girls as they were shopping today, because they couldn't wait to show me their purchases! It is receiving a slurpy kiss from my 15 year old dog, who is on her last legs, but still greets me with a little wag now and then. It is watching Steve walk through the door with a pizza, knowing he's home for the rest of the night. And it's looking out into the yard, seeing the big snow-trodden tracks of my silly family, running around in circles in the yard. It's a visit with a friend, silly texts from Patty, and last of all, sunshine!!
It's life, as I know it, life as I see it, and life as I enjoy it!
It was an ordinary day, and I loved every minute of it!
I spent a few hours with a dear friend today, having a coffee and a coke break. Maybe I should just call it a caffeinated visit! We've wanted to get together for a long time. I'm so glad that we finally did. We always have a lot to talk about, and today was no exception. Thanks, buddy, for a nice talk!
I enjoyed the drive, turning up the music nice and loud, and passing all the slow cars. See, I had the "coolmobile" today, NOT the mom-van! I was rockin' the dad car. I was cool! Maybe it was the fact that the heat in the dad car doesn't work! Either way....
I didn't get much done today, as I came home to a demanding doggie, who doesn't like to be left alone for very long. I spent the rest of the afternoon keeping her happy, and watching a little TV. Steve brought a pizza home for us, and we hung out, munching pizza, talking about our crazy pooch.
The girls got home a little early, and excitedly showed us their fabulous purchases, and bubbled about their trip with Grammy.
What magic there is in an ordinary day! It may be a humdrum life to someone else, but to me, this is magic. It's being able to relax, be in the moment, appreciate little joys, and not expect too much.
It is receiving texts from my girls as they were shopping today, because they couldn't wait to show me their purchases! It is receiving a slurpy kiss from my 15 year old dog, who is on her last legs, but still greets me with a little wag now and then. It is watching Steve walk through the door with a pizza, knowing he's home for the rest of the night. And it's looking out into the yard, seeing the big snow-trodden tracks of my silly family, running around in circles in the yard. It's a visit with a friend, silly texts from Patty, and last of all, sunshine!!
It's life, as I know it, life as I see it, and life as I enjoy it!
It was an ordinary day, and I loved every minute of it!
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
I Do. I Did. I Will.
My ring is done! Quite awhile back, I noticed one of my diamonds was missing from my wedding ring. Not the main one, mind you, which was a relief. However, at that time, I noticed my band was coming apart, and the prongs were worn down. I had lost and gained weight so many times that my ring didn't even want to come off anymore! So, I put the ring in a safe place and wore my bare finger around in sore disappointment.
I hated looking down and not seeing my ring where it belonged. I wasn't afraid of being approached at the grocery store by some single dude. The thing I feared most actually happened when Steve and I went to lunch at Big E's one day. The server asked if we wanted separate checks!! Oh, no! My bare finger and I were having lunch with a married man! And who knew whose married man he was, right?? So, then I became aware that I needed a ring on my finger to make me feel married!
I picked up a cheapie ring at Penney's one day, as we were heading to a wedding. Of all places to have a naked finger, a wedding is not one of them! So, why didn't we just go and get the ring fixed and prevent all this anguish?
I was afraid that it was going to cost a ridiculous amount of money, and it was around holiday time. I was feeling like I really shouldn't make my wedding ring a priority over the bills! Unlike the engagement, where Steve cared only about selling enough appliances to pay for this sparkly ball and chain. How things have changed!
We finally decided to take the ring in to the place where it was originally purchased to just see how much it would be to restore or replace. Steve planned a nice day of going to the jewelry store and to lunch, in the same town we spent our dating years. Well, we drove up and they were CLOSED!!
That is really what gets me about anticipation. It makes me wait!! So, finally we picked the right day to go and after looking at newer models, I found a new love for my banged up old ring. The ring that started it all. The one he scraped to save for. The ring that sat in his pocket for an extra day....
We laugh about this story now! See, Steve was always late picking me up and it drove me crazy! On the night he was planning to propose, he drove like a madman, trying to get to the jewelry store before they closed at 6. He was late getting out of work as it was, so he was in a panic. He made it there just before 6, and learned that my ring wasn't actually a ring. It was a loose solitaire! He freaked! The guy at the jewelry store felt so sorry for him that he agreed to stay late and mount the diamond for him. There was only one teeny weeny 110 pound problem.
I was at home, impatiently waiting for him to show up for our date! He didn't call, as this was before the cell phone movement, so I had no idea where he was. By the time he got there, I was more than annoyed with him. We went on our date as planned, didn't have the greatest time, and that was that! I chose that time to tell him that I didn't appreciate him being late all the time!
Imagine my horror when the next night I learned that the proposal I received that night was actually planned for the night before! Because I was such a grouch, I ruined my own special night!! And I've been paying ever since...no, I'm just kidding...
So as the sales clerk was pulling out ring after ring, showing me new cuts and sizes, my gaze kept going to my ring, sitting there on the counter. I was comparing each ring to my old faithful. The ring I gazed at for hours, the night I became a fiance. The ring I showed off to all my friends and family, even strangers at work! The ring that took me from single to engaged. Engaged to married.
I put on ring after ring and finally announced, "I just want my wedding ring, only fixed up a little. I can't imagine anything else." I think Steve breathed a huge sigh of financial relief on that one!
And so my bare finger and I await another proposal. I will paint my nails, do my hair, and be in a great mood. And when he asks, I will again say "yes", and smile as he places that ring on my finger again...
...even if he's late!
I hated looking down and not seeing my ring where it belonged. I wasn't afraid of being approached at the grocery store by some single dude. The thing I feared most actually happened when Steve and I went to lunch at Big E's one day. The server asked if we wanted separate checks!! Oh, no! My bare finger and I were having lunch with a married man! And who knew whose married man he was, right?? So, then I became aware that I needed a ring on my finger to make me feel married!
I picked up a cheapie ring at Penney's one day, as we were heading to a wedding. Of all places to have a naked finger, a wedding is not one of them! So, why didn't we just go and get the ring fixed and prevent all this anguish?
I was afraid that it was going to cost a ridiculous amount of money, and it was around holiday time. I was feeling like I really shouldn't make my wedding ring a priority over the bills! Unlike the engagement, where Steve cared only about selling enough appliances to pay for this sparkly ball and chain. How things have changed!
We finally decided to take the ring in to the place where it was originally purchased to just see how much it would be to restore or replace. Steve planned a nice day of going to the jewelry store and to lunch, in the same town we spent our dating years. Well, we drove up and they were CLOSED!!
That is really what gets me about anticipation. It makes me wait!! So, finally we picked the right day to go and after looking at newer models, I found a new love for my banged up old ring. The ring that started it all. The one he scraped to save for. The ring that sat in his pocket for an extra day....
We laugh about this story now! See, Steve was always late picking me up and it drove me crazy! On the night he was planning to propose, he drove like a madman, trying to get to the jewelry store before they closed at 6. He was late getting out of work as it was, so he was in a panic. He made it there just before 6, and learned that my ring wasn't actually a ring. It was a loose solitaire! He freaked! The guy at the jewelry store felt so sorry for him that he agreed to stay late and mount the diamond for him. There was only one teeny weeny 110 pound problem.
I was at home, impatiently waiting for him to show up for our date! He didn't call, as this was before the cell phone movement, so I had no idea where he was. By the time he got there, I was more than annoyed with him. We went on our date as planned, didn't have the greatest time, and that was that! I chose that time to tell him that I didn't appreciate him being late all the time!
Imagine my horror when the next night I learned that the proposal I received that night was actually planned for the night before! Because I was such a grouch, I ruined my own special night!! And I've been paying ever since...no, I'm just kidding...
So as the sales clerk was pulling out ring after ring, showing me new cuts and sizes, my gaze kept going to my ring, sitting there on the counter. I was comparing each ring to my old faithful. The ring I gazed at for hours, the night I became a fiance. The ring I showed off to all my friends and family, even strangers at work! The ring that took me from single to engaged. Engaged to married.
I put on ring after ring and finally announced, "I just want my wedding ring, only fixed up a little. I can't imagine anything else." I think Steve breathed a huge sigh of financial relief on that one!
And so my bare finger and I await another proposal. I will paint my nails, do my hair, and be in a great mood. And when he asks, I will again say "yes", and smile as he places that ring on my finger again...
...even if he's late!
Monday, March 28, 2011
ER and ME
I've been reading about the Roosevelts lately, Eleanor in particular. I find her very interesting, and I always have. She was strong, fearless, and wise from the time she was very young. In reading her quotes and reading her biography (ies), I have found similarities between Miss Eleanor and me! Oh, don't worry, we're pretty different in almost the same number of ways.
One way that we are similar is that I am always thirsting for knowledge. I can't seem to turn it off. I have to learn or I feel like my brain is wasting away! It should come as no surprise to you then to know how deeply having to leave college affected me.
I've told the story before so I won't repeat it again here, but not being able to finish my dream in the time that I wanted to finish it has left a large void in my life. We all have voids, and we all try to fill them. Sometimes we get it right and sometimes we don't!
When my road took a twist, I decided I'd be the best at whatever I was going to do, and it worked for awhile. When my road began to have the same type of bumps that caused me to leave college, I rerouted yet again and tried to be the best mom I could possibly be. The most important job I will ever do. The most rewarding. The best benefits. And yet, the void remains.
See, when you have a void for ,let's say...chocolate...you can't eat celery and be satisfied! When you feel a pull to achieve something and you instead become the best rock-washer on the beach, you lose a bit of yourself along the way.
This isn't one of those, "who am I-where am I going" moments. I have accepted that for now this is what it is. I haven't accepted that it's forever! I do hope to return to college one day...that is, after we pay for both girls to go...yikes. After this and after that....yup. It's what it is. For now.
I'd love to say I'll bloom where I'm planted, and for the most part, I have. But there comes a time in a bloom's life where it's time to deadhead, uproot, and replant. I'm at that stage.
My unending thirst for knowledge is for the moment being quenched by Eleanor Roosevelt, who never stopped learning. And maybe she said it best this way,
" You have to accept whatever comes, and the only important thing is that you meet it with the best you have to give."
One way that we are similar is that I am always thirsting for knowledge. I can't seem to turn it off. I have to learn or I feel like my brain is wasting away! It should come as no surprise to you then to know how deeply having to leave college affected me.
I've told the story before so I won't repeat it again here, but not being able to finish my dream in the time that I wanted to finish it has left a large void in my life. We all have voids, and we all try to fill them. Sometimes we get it right and sometimes we don't!
When my road took a twist, I decided I'd be the best at whatever I was going to do, and it worked for awhile. When my road began to have the same type of bumps that caused me to leave college, I rerouted yet again and tried to be the best mom I could possibly be. The most important job I will ever do. The most rewarding. The best benefits. And yet, the void remains.
See, when you have a void for ,let's say...chocolate...you can't eat celery and be satisfied! When you feel a pull to achieve something and you instead become the best rock-washer on the beach, you lose a bit of yourself along the way.
This isn't one of those, "who am I-where am I going" moments. I have accepted that for now this is what it is. I haven't accepted that it's forever! I do hope to return to college one day...that is, after we pay for both girls to go...yikes. After this and after that....yup. It's what it is. For now.
I'd love to say I'll bloom where I'm planted, and for the most part, I have. But there comes a time in a bloom's life where it's time to deadhead, uproot, and replant. I'm at that stage.
My unending thirst for knowledge is for the moment being quenched by Eleanor Roosevelt, who never stopped learning. And maybe she said it best this way,
" You have to accept whatever comes, and the only important thing is that you meet it with the best you have to give."
Friday, March 25, 2011
Winter Spring Summer or Fall.,..which is it now??
I posted just recently about complaining, so clearly, I can't say anything about our current weather situation. Hence, the absence from my blog lately.
You know, if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all? Yep. I've been soooooo quiet lately. I also love any excuse to use the word "hence". It makes me feel so nerdy and delicious.
So, the girls are getting haircuts tomorrow with the amazing Miss Nikki. I love any opportunity to give Nikki props. In the current times of girls wanting to do everything but wear their natural hair, Nikki goes against the grain! Serena used to be so discouraged about her natural waviness in her hair. We tried everything! Nikki simply encouraged her to learn to love her natural locks and to work with what she has because it is beautiful! While Natalie began to be impressed by her classmates getting perms and highlights, Nikki refused to encourage her. She pointed out the beauty of Nat's natural wave and sun-kissed highlights, telling her there was no way to improve upon it! While Nikki herself is stylish and beautiful, 10 years younger than myself (who isn't??), she is a big believer in working with your own natural beauty. I love that concept in a world that pushes beauty beauty beauty all the t-i-m-e time!
Serena gets her braces put on next week! What a way to spend "s-word" break, right? Well, we don't care that we're not going someplace warm. Go ahead and go to Florida. Spend all your money and come back tan. We will be here making smoothies and picking out pools. That's right! We're finally buying a "real" pool!!
Since we are avid "staycationers", we try to keep this place fun for our weekends. Ever since we sold our last pool, we've been wanting to get a nicer one. As PD would ask, "why??" Well, because the girls were finding it hard to truly swim in a cup of water! All those years of swimming lessons were being wasted. Not only that, but swimming is so good for every part of your body. My mom has wanted a pool for as long as I can remember. Well, now she will get one! Our pool will probably entertain lots of people, I'm sure. Anyway, we're excited!
Like any break, we just play it by ear, not planning too much as we go. I'm a bit impulsive and find that the last minute plans always turn out better than the pre-planned ones! We may take in a movie, do some shopping (dread...gag...i can't stand shopping!!), and cook some fun stuff! (oops...I think I complained....)
Have a great break or non-break....either way, have a great week!
You know, if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all? Yep. I've been soooooo quiet lately. I also love any excuse to use the word "hence". It makes me feel so nerdy and delicious.
So, the girls are getting haircuts tomorrow with the amazing Miss Nikki. I love any opportunity to give Nikki props. In the current times of girls wanting to do everything but wear their natural hair, Nikki goes against the grain! Serena used to be so discouraged about her natural waviness in her hair. We tried everything! Nikki simply encouraged her to learn to love her natural locks and to work with what she has because it is beautiful! While Natalie began to be impressed by her classmates getting perms and highlights, Nikki refused to encourage her. She pointed out the beauty of Nat's natural wave and sun-kissed highlights, telling her there was no way to improve upon it! While Nikki herself is stylish and beautiful, 10 years younger than myself (who isn't??), she is a big believer in working with your own natural beauty. I love that concept in a world that pushes beauty beauty beauty all the t-i-m-e time!
Serena gets her braces put on next week! What a way to spend "s-word" break, right? Well, we don't care that we're not going someplace warm. Go ahead and go to Florida. Spend all your money and come back tan. We will be here making smoothies and picking out pools. That's right! We're finally buying a "real" pool!!
Since we are avid "staycationers", we try to keep this place fun for our weekends. Ever since we sold our last pool, we've been wanting to get a nicer one. As PD would ask, "why??" Well, because the girls were finding it hard to truly swim in a cup of water! All those years of swimming lessons were being wasted. Not only that, but swimming is so good for every part of your body. My mom has wanted a pool for as long as I can remember. Well, now she will get one! Our pool will probably entertain lots of people, I'm sure. Anyway, we're excited!
Like any break, we just play it by ear, not planning too much as we go. I'm a bit impulsive and find that the last minute plans always turn out better than the pre-planned ones! We may take in a movie, do some shopping (dread...gag...i can't stand shopping!!), and cook some fun stuff! (oops...I think I complained....)
Have a great break or non-break....either way, have a great week!
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Hello? S- Word??
Sunday was the official Vernal Equinox. I prefer to call it that instead of the popular "S" word so many people dare to utter in March. Please! If you've been here long enough, you should know better than to pull out your "S" clothes, shoes, or lawn furniture until at least June. June. When we can still expect a freeze or two!
Well, it may be officially "S" word, but tell that to my poor tulips, hyacinths, and daffodils. Tell it to my crabtrees. Tell it to my poor kids who long to go barefoot! They're just not feelin' it!
Of course, there are winter storm warnings for tonight and tomorrow. See, I can use the "W" word because it's still winter, at least in my mind. The electric blankets are still on the beds, Sophie still shivers after coming inside, and we're still huddling under blankets while watching TV. And now we await another storm. Snow...ice...typical Michigan fare for March, positive attitude or not!
Natalie will get me for this, but the other day her dad caught her lying on her bed in her bathing suit. Not so weird...the sun was shining brightly on her as she read her book! Maybe we should all take a hint from Natalie. Spring is wherever you make it. Whatever you do with it. However you're feelin' it. A calendar can tell us what day it is, but our minds can be anywhere in any given moment.
So now I must go. My "plane" is waiting. I'm "going" to the Bahamas right now!! I'll bring you back a little umbrella...for your rainy days!
Happy "S" word, my positive but misguided Michiganders!!
Well, it may be officially "S" word, but tell that to my poor tulips, hyacinths, and daffodils. Tell it to my crabtrees. Tell it to my poor kids who long to go barefoot! They're just not feelin' it!
Of course, there are winter storm warnings for tonight and tomorrow. See, I can use the "W" word because it's still winter, at least in my mind. The electric blankets are still on the beds, Sophie still shivers after coming inside, and we're still huddling under blankets while watching TV. And now we await another storm. Snow...ice...typical Michigan fare for March, positive attitude or not!
Natalie will get me for this, but the other day her dad caught her lying on her bed in her bathing suit. Not so weird...the sun was shining brightly on her as she read her book! Maybe we should all take a hint from Natalie. Spring is wherever you make it. Whatever you do with it. However you're feelin' it. A calendar can tell us what day it is, but our minds can be anywhere in any given moment.
So now I must go. My "plane" is waiting. I'm "going" to the Bahamas right now!! I'll bring you back a little umbrella...for your rainy days!
Happy "S" word, my positive but misguided Michiganders!!
Monday, March 21, 2011
My Complaints
I have no complaints today. None. I have only guilt for the silly complaints I've had recently....ladybugs....dirty carpet....heartburn...cold weather....silly list goes on...
However, some days I have to think further than myself, further than my nose and the problems right in front of it. I have to remember that there are bigger issues out there. Bigger heartbreaks than mine. Bigger tears.
There are lots of big tears around me right now. Around all of us. Lots of illness, lots of desperation. So much hurt and pain and destruction. It's so overwhelming, frustrating, and confusing!!
I've asked God "why???" more than ever lately. I don't expect He'll answer me with a well-stated reason. I'm sure He'll continue to ask me to simply trust Him. And I will continue to praise a God that I don't always understand. It's the part of faith that defines the word itself.
That is SO not easy!! Maybe that will be my one complaint today. That I still don't get it! Will I ever? I don't know...
Be blessed, and may you feel a reason to praise and not complain through it all.
However, some days I have to think further than myself, further than my nose and the problems right in front of it. I have to remember that there are bigger issues out there. Bigger heartbreaks than mine. Bigger tears.
There are lots of big tears around me right now. Around all of us. Lots of illness, lots of desperation. So much hurt and pain and destruction. It's so overwhelming, frustrating, and confusing!!
I've asked God "why???" more than ever lately. I don't expect He'll answer me with a well-stated reason. I'm sure He'll continue to ask me to simply trust Him. And I will continue to praise a God that I don't always understand. It's the part of faith that defines the word itself.
That is SO not easy!! Maybe that will be my one complaint today. That I still don't get it! Will I ever? I don't know...
Be blessed, and may you feel a reason to praise and not complain through it all.
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Life in our Neighborhood
Steve took a couple days off last week, and we basically worked on stuff for the kids both days. Wouldn't you know it?
On Thursday, I decided to put together an impromptu St. Patrick's day dinner, being that most of my heritage is Irish. A trip to the grocery store for bacon and cabbage, to the dollar store for green plates, and to the library for books on Ireland kept us busy that day. I came home and made a traditional Irish dinner of bacon, cabbage, and homemade noodles. Funny thing is, I had no idea it was a traditional irish meal, as I grew up eating this all the time as a kid! We also had Irish soda bread and butter in the shape of a shamrock! I decorated the kitchen and set the table, putting a special irish blessing beside their plates. It's the first time I've done something like this, so the kids were surprised! I didn't tell them that my old way of celebrating was to make green popcorn and drink a green beer. I've come a long way! Anyway, it was a lot of fun as a family, sharing Irish facts and talking about my dad's side of the family.
On Friday, we put Natalie's furniture back in her room, and I was able to put more of her decorations up. I know it sounds corny, but one of the things Steve and I have always loved to do is work on projects around the house together! Ever since we lived in a rental and did odd jobs for our landlady, then bought an old house later, we always enjoyed ripping, tearing and putting back together as a team.
We celebrated a good week by going to one of our favorite places--China Palace, where they always give us a great table!:) We took the girls to the mall, where we waited and waited outside each store so they could shop. It was fun for them, I'm sure!
On Saturday, we finally went to the jewelry store where my wedding ring was purchased in order to have my ring restored! After looking at all the bling and all the options, I decided that all I wanted was my original ring, only repaired and with the missing diamond replaced. I'm just too sentimental, I guess! We did look at some anniversary bands, and I have to say, I'm likin' that idea!! We have been together for almost 23 years! Married for almost 17...I won't have long to wait! We ended our fun day shooting baskets together. Honestly, it doesn't take much to make us happy!
That brings me to Sunday, which was a day beginning with church, and a sermon that I really needed to hear! (I always need to hear them!) Steve did all the cooking today, ending our day with a wonderful ham dinner! I made dessert...a giant pan of brownies with frosting and ice cream on top!!
The week had its frustrations and challenges, but we had a lot of fun too...that's just life in our neighborhood!
On Thursday, I decided to put together an impromptu St. Patrick's day dinner, being that most of my heritage is Irish. A trip to the grocery store for bacon and cabbage, to the dollar store for green plates, and to the library for books on Ireland kept us busy that day. I came home and made a traditional Irish dinner of bacon, cabbage, and homemade noodles. Funny thing is, I had no idea it was a traditional irish meal, as I grew up eating this all the time as a kid! We also had Irish soda bread and butter in the shape of a shamrock! I decorated the kitchen and set the table, putting a special irish blessing beside their plates. It's the first time I've done something like this, so the kids were surprised! I didn't tell them that my old way of celebrating was to make green popcorn and drink a green beer. I've come a long way! Anyway, it was a lot of fun as a family, sharing Irish facts and talking about my dad's side of the family.
On Friday, we put Natalie's furniture back in her room, and I was able to put more of her decorations up. I know it sounds corny, but one of the things Steve and I have always loved to do is work on projects around the house together! Ever since we lived in a rental and did odd jobs for our landlady, then bought an old house later, we always enjoyed ripping, tearing and putting back together as a team.
We celebrated a good week by going to one of our favorite places--China Palace, where they always give us a great table!:) We took the girls to the mall, where we waited and waited outside each store so they could shop. It was fun for them, I'm sure!
On Saturday, we finally went to the jewelry store where my wedding ring was purchased in order to have my ring restored! After looking at all the bling and all the options, I decided that all I wanted was my original ring, only repaired and with the missing diamond replaced. I'm just too sentimental, I guess! We did look at some anniversary bands, and I have to say, I'm likin' that idea!! We have been together for almost 23 years! Married for almost 17...I won't have long to wait! We ended our fun day shooting baskets together. Honestly, it doesn't take much to make us happy!
That brings me to Sunday, which was a day beginning with church, and a sermon that I really needed to hear! (I always need to hear them!) Steve did all the cooking today, ending our day with a wonderful ham dinner! I made dessert...a giant pan of brownies with frosting and ice cream on top!!
The week had its frustrations and challenges, but we had a lot of fun too...that's just life in our neighborhood!
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Busy Body
I haven't been posting because I am super busy! I have been painting Nat's room since Friday...you all know what a big ordeal painting can be! I cleaned her carpet today, and tonight Dad hung her new chandelier! Her room is so crisp and clean with its new color. Sorry, no photo. You'll have to imagine it all. It's a soft ice aqua color on the walls, her bedding is a darker version of the same color, and we have pops of bright green for that youthful excitement! We're using Paris and her love of fashion design as our inspiration. Tomorrow I will work on getting some letters cut out of vinyl for over her bed. We think "C'est La Vie" will do. I will double check the spelling, of course. I wanted "French Fry", but it was shot down by the teenager.
I've also been busy running Serena to the orthodontist. She started treatment a couple weeks ago. Today she got her expander put in. I get to tighten her expander with a key each night. She's my little Frankenstein! She slurs her "s's" and can't say certain words well. We were pulling into McDonald's for a shake and she said, "I'm going to shound so shilly at school tomorrow." I responded, "Oh, you won't shound shilly at all!" Our whole family is now talking with a lisp and an obvious slur. Lucky girl, eh?
Steve's taking a couple days off this week, and we're looking forward to hanging out a bit. His reorganized position has increased his load and his stress level. People always want success, right? But it comes with a high price sometimes. Be careful what you wish for!
My body will continue to be busy this week as I try to catch up on all the jobs that slid while I worked on Natalie's room. Isn't that just the way it goes when you're trying to accomplish something? Ten other things are piling up!
Sorry I'm not so funny today....must be the paint fumes!! :)
I've also been busy running Serena to the orthodontist. She started treatment a couple weeks ago. Today she got her expander put in. I get to tighten her expander with a key each night. She's my little Frankenstein! She slurs her "s's" and can't say certain words well. We were pulling into McDonald's for a shake and she said, "I'm going to shound so shilly at school tomorrow." I responded, "Oh, you won't shound shilly at all!" Our whole family is now talking with a lisp and an obvious slur. Lucky girl, eh?
Steve's taking a couple days off this week, and we're looking forward to hanging out a bit. His reorganized position has increased his load and his stress level. People always want success, right? But it comes with a high price sometimes. Be careful what you wish for!
My body will continue to be busy this week as I try to catch up on all the jobs that slid while I worked on Natalie's room. Isn't that just the way it goes when you're trying to accomplish something? Ten other things are piling up!
Sorry I'm not so funny today....must be the paint fumes!! :)
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Nerd Shoutout
Okay, have it your way. You are reading my post, yet you won't admit that you are a computer geek by responding to my previous post, no...CRY for help! I get it. Maybe it would make you feel better to know that although not a computer geek, I do have some "geek" in me.
Here are just a few nerdy things I do:
1. I love a good documentary on PBS, oh yes I do.
2. I can belt out a show tune or two if I'm feelin' it.
3. I love Jerry Lewis movies.
4. I relate to "Steve Urkel" in that for years my pants were too short, and I crushed on a neighbor kid who didn't know I existed.
5. I'm a word nerd. I use big words at home to get my kids' attention. They stop,give me the look and then bust out laughing at me. Today's word was "plethora". I even used it on the dog. She liked it.
6. I don't snort when I laugh, but I know people who do and I don't care.
7. When I was 13, I put rollers in my hair and then cleaned out my snail aquarium. My sister took a picture. It was my "WHOA" moment.
8. I'm not into science fiction, as you may have predicted, but I do like science. And I like fiction. Just not together necessarily.
9. I know how many licks to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop.
10. I hang out with nerds. Yes, this means you. Now, get off your butt and help me with this computer issue so I can post pictures of my nerdy self.
Here are just a few nerdy things I do:
1. I love a good documentary on PBS, oh yes I do.
2. I can belt out a show tune or two if I'm feelin' it.
3. I love Jerry Lewis movies.
4. I relate to "Steve Urkel" in that for years my pants were too short, and I crushed on a neighbor kid who didn't know I existed.
5. I'm a word nerd. I use big words at home to get my kids' attention. They stop,give me the look and then bust out laughing at me. Today's word was "plethora". I even used it on the dog. She liked it.
6. I don't snort when I laugh, but I know people who do and I don't care.
7. When I was 13, I put rollers in my hair and then cleaned out my snail aquarium. My sister took a picture. It was my "WHOA" moment.
8. I'm not into science fiction, as you may have predicted, but I do like science. And I like fiction. Just not together necessarily.
9. I know how many licks to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop.
10. I hang out with nerds. Yes, this means you. Now, get off your butt and help me with this computer issue so I can post pictures of my nerdy self.
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Wanted: Computer Geeks
Okay, I've had it! Before our home computer crashed and burned, I had no problems posting pictures on my blog. With my laptop, however, it is just baffling me. I follow the exact same procedure as before, even shrinking my photos down so that they load faster. When it comes to the point of clicking on "done" in the upload photo window (at this point, it is supposed to "land" in my post), all of my windows disappear, leaving me with just my connection box. (sorry for all the layman's terms)
Anyway, if anyone has any ideas why this keeps happening, please share! It's a matter of blog life or death! I'm so frustrated that it makes me not want to post at all! And believe me, it makes me want to really inflict some damage on this poor laptop. I'm sitting by a window. This could get ugly.
Please help. I promise not to call you a geek. To your face. :)
Anyway, if anyone has any ideas why this keeps happening, please share! It's a matter of blog life or death! I'm so frustrated that it makes me not want to post at all! And believe me, it makes me want to really inflict some damage on this poor laptop. I'm sitting by a window. This could get ugly.
Please help. I promise not to call you a geek. To your face. :)
Monday, March 7, 2011
PG-13
Natalie hit the big thirteen last month, and while I expected something monumental to happen that day, nothing did! She's still the same kid, even though she's made that scary transition into teenland.
We've had a couple new discussions on popular topics, all of which have ended well. She asked me if she could watch PG-13 movies, and I told her it had nothing to do with age! It has everything to do with content! So, until she's 18, I'm still reviewing any movies she wants to see. I'm the ratings maker, not society. She should know that by now, but I suppose she was testing a bit. That's okay. I've been reading up on her and watching Dr. Phil. I'm good.
I finally allowed her to go on Facebook too. She knew that I wouldn't allow her to "lie", as some of her classmates advised her to do, in order to get a page before age 13. Well, in our house, we tell the truth, so she already knew to wait until 13 to ask me again. I told her it was fine, but I have the password, and I get to check out her page whenever I feel the need. So far she just enjoys posting funny jokes and crazy sayings. (I still don't care to go on it. It just doesn't do anything for me. I do loving reading blogs though!)
I've decided that thirteen's not so bad yet. Yet. Hmm...other people tell me their daughters became monsters. Well, Nat's never been a "monster", so I just can't see it happening. She's pretty good-natured. It takes a lot to rattle her cage, and she's busy doing lots of things, so she doesn't have time to dwell on anything! I hope it stays that way!
PG-13 at our house stands for "Pretty Great 13" so far. Now, remember, I have an 11 year old coming up the ranks too. She's a pretty great kid too, but unfortunately is a bit more like her mom...oh, paybacks paybacks!
There are so many issues with preteen girls these days, so many things that I never had to go through. It makes me feel a bit ill-equipped to handle them. So what's a mom to do? PRAY. It's really the best parenting advice I've found so far!
We've had a couple new discussions on popular topics, all of which have ended well. She asked me if she could watch PG-13 movies, and I told her it had nothing to do with age! It has everything to do with content! So, until she's 18, I'm still reviewing any movies she wants to see. I'm the ratings maker, not society. She should know that by now, but I suppose she was testing a bit. That's okay. I've been reading up on her and watching Dr. Phil. I'm good.
I finally allowed her to go on Facebook too. She knew that I wouldn't allow her to "lie", as some of her classmates advised her to do, in order to get a page before age 13. Well, in our house, we tell the truth, so she already knew to wait until 13 to ask me again. I told her it was fine, but I have the password, and I get to check out her page whenever I feel the need. So far she just enjoys posting funny jokes and crazy sayings. (I still don't care to go on it. It just doesn't do anything for me. I do loving reading blogs though!)
I've decided that thirteen's not so bad yet. Yet. Hmm...other people tell me their daughters became monsters. Well, Nat's never been a "monster", so I just can't see it happening. She's pretty good-natured. It takes a lot to rattle her cage, and she's busy doing lots of things, so she doesn't have time to dwell on anything! I hope it stays that way!
PG-13 at our house stands for "Pretty Great 13" so far. Now, remember, I have an 11 year old coming up the ranks too. She's a pretty great kid too, but unfortunately is a bit more like her mom...oh, paybacks paybacks!
There are so many issues with preteen girls these days, so many things that I never had to go through. It makes me feel a bit ill-equipped to handle them. So what's a mom to do? PRAY. It's really the best parenting advice I've found so far!
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Merry Maids...Take Me Away!
I've started my "Plan of Attack: Spring Cleaning" list once again this year, and it's not pretty. How on earth did this 5 year old house get so dirty? I have quite a long list, and it begins with the following:
1. Clean all light fixtures and ceiling fans
2. Wash down all walls, baseboards, trim, and light switches
3. Wash tops of kitchen cabinets(oh, my goodness)
4. shampoo carpets and upholstery
5. Windows, windows, windows, plus curtains, casings,and sills
Truly, think of all the time that is going to take from my life. I will never get those hours back!! Today I spent over 2 hours on my refrigerator and pantry cupboards. I could have taken 2 bubble baths in that amount of time! I'd have to clean the tub first though....
Does anyone really care if my ceiling fans are clean? Who am I doing all this work for anyway? Steve doesn't notice if the house is clean or not. He's tired when he gets home and just wants a hot meal! The girls, believe me, don't value cleanliness! So, is it for company? Nope. I don't have much of that unless I initiate it, which is hardly ever! Besides, I wouldn't invite people over who would wear their white gloves anyway!
So is it for me? Probably. I feel better when my house is clean and uncluttered. Then I feel I can scrapbook or watch a movie guilt free! Problem is, my house never stays that way long enough to enjoy it anyway! I have what we all call a losing battle! You never get caught up on cleaning or laundry, right? You enjoy a clean house for the amount of time that no one is there!!
I agree with Eleanor Roosevelt...."The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are!"
SO, I guess I must keep it dirty for my company who might come over. Yeah, that's it!! Well, gotta go....bubble bath time!!
1. Clean all light fixtures and ceiling fans
2. Wash down all walls, baseboards, trim, and light switches
3. Wash tops of kitchen cabinets(oh, my goodness)
4. shampoo carpets and upholstery
5. Windows, windows, windows, plus curtains, casings,and sills
Truly, think of all the time that is going to take from my life. I will never get those hours back!! Today I spent over 2 hours on my refrigerator and pantry cupboards. I could have taken 2 bubble baths in that amount of time! I'd have to clean the tub first though....
Does anyone really care if my ceiling fans are clean? Who am I doing all this work for anyway? Steve doesn't notice if the house is clean or not. He's tired when he gets home and just wants a hot meal! The girls, believe me, don't value cleanliness! So, is it for company? Nope. I don't have much of that unless I initiate it, which is hardly ever! Besides, I wouldn't invite people over who would wear their white gloves anyway!
So is it for me? Probably. I feel better when my house is clean and uncluttered. Then I feel I can scrapbook or watch a movie guilt free! Problem is, my house never stays that way long enough to enjoy it anyway! I have what we all call a losing battle! You never get caught up on cleaning or laundry, right? You enjoy a clean house for the amount of time that no one is there!!
I agree with Eleanor Roosevelt...."The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are!"
SO, I guess I must keep it dirty for my company who might come over. Yeah, that's it!! Well, gotta go....bubble bath time!!
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Eleanor Roosevelt "gets" Me!
I'm a big fan of "Eleanorisms"...the great quotes by Eleanor Roosevelt...what a woman! :)
Here's my latest fave:
"A WOMAN IS LIKE A TEA BAG--YOU CAN'T TELL HOW STRONG SHE IS UNTIL YOU PUT HER IN HOT WATER."
Thanks, El, I get it!
I'll be sharing more of my favorites later...can't give them all at once, right? Gotta leave 'em wanting for more!!
Have a great day, my Tea Bags!
Here's my latest fave:
"A WOMAN IS LIKE A TEA BAG--YOU CAN'T TELL HOW STRONG SHE IS UNTIL YOU PUT HER IN HOT WATER."
Thanks, El, I get it!
I'll be sharing more of my favorites later...can't give them all at once, right? Gotta leave 'em wanting for more!!
Have a great day, my Tea Bags!
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Here's a Thought...or Two...
"IF YOU DON'T GET EVERYTHING YOU WANT, THINK OF THE THINGS YOU DON'T GET THAT YOU DON'T WANT"--ANONYMOUS
That thought got me thinking of all the things I "don't" have, like a big wart on the end of my nose. Like a leaky roof. A farting dog. Sorry about that one.
Really, sometimes it does help to think of all the things you don't have to put up with, and just be thankful for that! Here's an incomplete list of my "don't haves":
I Don't have...
1. A broken garage door.
2. A wet basement.
3. broken bones.
4. Rotten potatoes.
5. Mice.
6. Telemarketers.
7. An annoying hacking cough.
8. Loud neighbors.
9. Sports on the TV 24/7
10. Snakes living in my toilet.
Obviously these are just a few minor ones. I'm sure I could come up with a hundred more!
Think about it. What do you NOT have that you DON'T want??
That thought got me thinking of all the things I "don't" have, like a big wart on the end of my nose. Like a leaky roof. A farting dog. Sorry about that one.
Really, sometimes it does help to think of all the things you don't have to put up with, and just be thankful for that! Here's an incomplete list of my "don't haves":
I Don't have...
1. A broken garage door.
2. A wet basement.
3. broken bones.
4. Rotten potatoes.
5. Mice.
6. Telemarketers.
7. An annoying hacking cough.
8. Loud neighbors.
9. Sports on the TV 24/7
10. Snakes living in my toilet.
Obviously these are just a few minor ones. I'm sure I could come up with a hundred more!
Think about it. What do you NOT have that you DON'T want??