Many Degrees of Success

A CMU professor stood up in front of his class on the first day and introduced himself. "I am Mr. So and So. Yes, I have PhD after my name, but DO NOT call me Dr. I am MR. So and So." Then he went on with his first question of the day. "Does everyone know what B.S. stands for?" The class snickered. Of course they did. He writes B.S. on the whiteboard and writes the common saying beside it. Then he asks if they know what M.S. stands for. Not waiting for an answer, he wrote "More of the Same" next to its initials. The class chuckled again. Then he writes PhD on his white board. Looking slyly to the class who is anxiously awaiting a clever answer, he gives it to them. "Piled higher and Deeper. Now, call me Mr."

Hearing my husband tell this story, I was so taken by it. After all, I never finished my B.S. (Bachelor of Science, in this case). I became ill and could not finish college. A little twist of fate I couldn't control. My life took me in the direction of wife and mom. I used to think that little piece of paper in the cool binder would make me feel fulfilled or important. I certainly don't discount those who earned degrees in college. Kudos to you and your hard work. However, I no longer base my worth on whether or not I finished college. Others may, such as family or friends, but I don't get caught up in their wrong thinking anymore. I used to cringe when I'd hear, "I don't see you doing this very long. You'll go back to college someday." As if being a mother could never compare to being a college graduate! Believe me, I don't work for minimum wage as a mom! It's unfair to categorize someone or criticize them for their life decisions. You may be messing with something God is trying to show them. Just back off!!
Right now, my girls need me and I need to be there for them. It is a sacrifice to be home with them and a sacrifice to work. A college degree wouldn't change that. My job is irreplaceable and I've gained knowledge I couldn't have found in the workplace. If God decides to lead me elsewhere when the majority of my mothering is through, then I will gladly follow, but I already feel important doing what I do.

Steve's degree is in a box of keepsakes somewhere, and I never hear him brag about any of his accomplishments. As his wife, I know what he's made of and what he's done. That piece of paper doesn't come close to who he is!

Be happy with where God has you and what he has in store. Don't let anyone tell you that initials after your name will make you important. Being humble will always win in the eyes of God. That is what matters!!